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Thursday, January 16, 2014

There is something that inspired me to write a blog post about single moms. As you all know,I am a single mother. It's not easy being one. 
You are both father and the mother of your precious one. 
For the past days,a few people who are close to me asked me how did I managed to raise my child on my own...

It's not easy. It's a mix of joy and mishaps. But the thing that matters is your child. Focusing on what is best for him or her is the key. 
Prioritizing the welfare of your child before yours is the important thing. Along the way,you will encounter problems,
but all lessons are learned to any kind of situations.Yes,we cannot compromise the good of your child by jut giving up.
Being a mother is a full time job that requires a lot of patience and perseverance..

Your family,friends and specially God can help you surpass anything. 
Praying hard for prudence and strength will guide you along the way.

At the end of your journey,it will all be rewarded. Trust me, I speak through experience. Not that I'm saying that I'm the perfect mom. 
But heaven knows,I'm trying my best to be one. Being the best of what you can be is no match for anything.

top: vaintage shoppe | bag: AK_collections | plaid flats: forever 21 | flounce skirt: bellevous 

 Let me just walk you through my ootd. Wore an off shoulder top from Vaintage shoppe. It's classic and elegant. 
It can be paired with any bottom to create different looks. The material is stretchy, It also comfortable to wear. 
Thank you Ms. Er for this. Vaintage shoppe can be visited and liked HERE. :)

So into flounce skirts. Though I have big hips,I just love wearing them! This red one is from Bellevous. 
Actually,it has a pair-a midriff top,but then again the pieces can be mix matched so a whole new ootd can be sported! 
Thanks again Ms.Bhim! Like Bellevous on facebook HERE.

I dedicate this post to all single mom's out there. Just be strong,Your baby is your greatest inspiration to move forward. 
Together,you will reach your dreams! Cheers to us!



  1. The first time you told me you had a daughter, I almost (Krizia too!) didn't believe it! Great post! And I love your skirt!!! <3

    Charlene Ajose
    Personal/Fashion Blogger and Layout Maker

    1. hi cha! so nice of you to drop by my blog! hehe :) wow! you and Krizia didn't believe it? haha anyhow,il drop by your blog soon!
      Take care always girl! see you soon! :)

  2. I was surprised when I found out you're a single mom. You don't look like you're taking care of a child (in a good way). Well, in my point of view, you don't have to be the perfect parent everyone will awe at, just be a parent to your child, that's all that matters. I like the whole look btw. :D

    1. Yes,I totally agree with you. Thank so much ken! :)

  3. You just lacked yellow in your outfit and you're like carrying the Philippine flag hehe. Basic colors is all about classic and elegance.

  4. I think you are a very strong person for being a single mom and I have high respect for your on being able to manage all your responsibilities. You're so pretty with the white top and the red combination skirt and shoes.

    1. That is so nice of you Franc. I appreciate your good words,thank you so much! :)

  5. "Being the best of what you can be is no match for anything."

  6. Just can't believe that you are a single mom,being a single mom is never an easy job.Anyway you're looking good in this outfit with nice colour combination.